I'm sick of it too. The person I want to be with is either on the run, dead or in prison right now. [What an uncharacteristic admission from Mr Reserved. But he knows he can trust Rin.] But if we show ourselves being grumpy about it, people will say 'Oh, look at the radicals, no fun at all'. Of course if we embrace it, we end up distracting attention from the cause and looking frivolous. It's a game that's not really winnable.